Beauty seems like a pretty over exaggerated word to be thrown around nonchalantly. Boys use it to win over hearts of naive girls. It's used to describe scenery or a picture. But sometimes it is not always something you can see with your bare eye. Sometimes you have to rip apart the surface to see what magic lies beneath. People have flaws, but it takes someone with a heart full of passion to see their beautiful imperfections.
You might have a friend or a loved one that comes with a past. Who doesn't have a past? But would you ever stop being friends with someone just because you found out about a past life event that is usually looked down upon? You might think, well I'd still love them, the past is the past. A lot of people don't understand that. The past makes us who we are today!
I am not the same person I used to be...two years ago! We get new perspective, we see things differently, we discover what is more important to us.
So when you make a new friend, you fell for the person they are and you're just going to stop being a supportive friend because of a past occurrence? Even if a friend had made a horrible mistake during our friendship, I'd do my best to help them through it.
Love is not just the agreements, it's the disagreements, the fights, the struggles you face together. When you think about it, how "interesting" would a relationship be if it was all perfect, nothing to worry about? How would you build a real trust? How would you know what the love felt like after forgiveness? Imperfections are the most beautiful thing in the world because of all that it helps develop.
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