There are so many ways a girl can be asked out! And there are ways she doesn't like or prefer being asked out. Here are their stories. (Haha, just kidding, just fun stuff)
The shy one:
This guy might take awhile to ask her. Even in a text he's uncomfortable talking about it. And this guy could be absolutely amazing, everything the girl dreamed! But let's face it, he needs to grow a pair or prove that he has a pair... She's on her feet the whole time, she's mountain high crazy for this guy. She might seem scared that he's just gonna leave her high and dry and that she'll just be pushed off that mountain. And when the poor girl has to ask for herself the guy is slightly relieved but still kinda disappointed he didn't do it himself.
The Waiter:
A similar case to the shy one but with a tangy twist. The guy with all the amazingness a girl could dream of. She is on her feet and mad for this guy but can't let it show too much. Why? Well, you don't wanna come off crazy...yet. AND because she is waiting. The girl is completely aware that he is bound to ask at some point or another. She's hinted at it once or twice but he sorta puts it on the back burner. She doesn't know what to expect, if he plans on asking her with an extravagant entrance or in a text or just waiting on getting something else? He is waiting and you have NO IDEA what or when whatever is going to happen! And this either makes her crazier for the guy or crazier in general. My theory is he would ask her inperson or at least in a phone call. I think that guy would like to her voice when she says yes.
The Texter:
Mostly likely the top irritating version of being asked out, unless they pull it off smoothly. This isn't necessarily shy as much as he just uncertain of what her answer might be. Possibly not wanting to get rejected in front of his face, so he can just sob on his own. There's been cute ways of pulling off this situation, but it's not preferred. Another case could be this guy is busy, he's done this before, he has enough confidence to know she'll say yes and then can freely go about their day while he has no fret about a simple date. So gentlemen, try NOT to use this strategy.
The Show Off:
Boy, does this guy have the most beautiful face you've ever seen. The nicest body you've ever seen. The deepest, sexiest voice you've ever heard. And boy does he know it. You know he knows it. And he knows you know he knows it. But yet you are still wrapped around his finger. He doesn't mind when people, girls, admire his looks, in fact, it's like his oxygen. So once you've figured this out you automatically know he likes to show off. When he proposes a date to you it's like fireworks, and teddy bears, and chocolates and he's singing opera! Maybe not that epic but in a teenage mind that's how it feels. But another reason a guy might show off or have a big entrance is because he wants to see that sparkle in her eyes and pray that she says yes! As you can see it could go both ways.
Just Friends:
Y'all have been best buds for years! You picked on each other and made fun of the people you dated but they were always there. Then...there's a realization when they see a whole new side of them. All the sudden, they seem ATTRACTIVE! WHAT?? This slowly turns to gradually getting butterflies when you see them and laughing more at what the say or wanting to hold them a little longer than just the casual hug. Both of y'all start to feel the same and before you know it, he's comfortable in asking if he could take you out. Not "hang out", "go out". And let the future lead you guys where y'all should go.
The only thing that ladies and gentlemen, we do not know who will do what sort of approach to being asked out and guys may not be sure how you'd like to be asked out. But if the guy is right then you can share that memory forever and if he's not quite the guy you were looking for, you still have a story.
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