Wednesday, May 8, 2013

I have no title for this, because I think it's just that stupid

Whore.
Such a strong word for people that are unaware of how to go about using this word. I have been called a whore because I show a public display of affection. For hugging and laughing with the guy I am dating.
This word, when used properly, means a person who has slept with multiple people with no means of love at all. Gives their self away freely without a care in the world.
As far as I am subconsciously aware, he's the only guy I've shown any affection for. I have also yet to sleep with him. So, what was that word you called me?

I will admit to laughing at and being disgusted with couples all over each other in the halls. Thinking, gee, get a room! Of course I'm not mean enough to say it to their face, it's their moment, I just didn't like it being displayed so freely I suppose. But there's thoughts in the back of my head I never seem to share with anyone, and that's usually the logical part of it all.
We don't know their life or their story, why they choose the hall, how long they've been together, or what kind of people they are. Have you ever stopped the think, maybe he's going off to the army or somewhere far for the summer or maybe much longer. It explains why she can't seem to let go of him. Maybe they just got together and don't realize how much they're doing in public, they're in their own world! Or maybe, just MAYBE, they freaking love each other or immensely care for the other person and they simply don't care what others see. They might choose the hall because that's the only class that's the closest spot between both their classes, there could be other reasons as well for that. And these people could just be passionate people. Us people that simply pass by can choose to ignore it, but if you feel the need to say something out loud to your friends, you might be slightly jealous or just want some of that little flame with your long term boyfriend.
But I did not understand why this particular display of affection made a person a whore. I have known people to do obscene things with guys or girls in bad places, drugs, sex, alcohol to the point of pregnancy. These are just sins people, it's no bigger than the sins I've made. But the sins I've committed and the sins anyone else has committed brings no persons' right to judge the other by who is more pure. We all somehow "judge" people, but the right to CONDEMN does not belong to us. People, think what you will, but I strongly suggest to not be the person to point the finger at what is to be looked down upon. You will be looked down upon by someone else. The least you could do is understand them and see eye to eye. Not "get on their level", but instead put yourself in their shoes. Listen to their story.
This blog is not about being a whore. It is about assumptions, becoming your own idol, and becoming so blind the only thing you choose to see is your own opinion. The reasons these couples don't care what you think is because you obviously aren't upset enough to say something to their face. Odds are, they probably wouldn't care anyway. :/

This is not for my personal story, it is just to help open eyes.

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